My values

  • Inclusion 🏳️‍⚧️✊🏽🏳️‍🌈

    in·clu·sion (n.) 1. The practice or policy of providing equal access to opportunities and resources for people who might otherwise be excluded or marginalized.

    On my online platforms, I use the word “inclusion” often. It’s been defined above, but personally, inclusion has been a big part of my life. It has shifted my life in mountainous ways, both for good and for bad. A lack of inclusion has threatened my well-being and safety, especially as a child, and my lived experience with inclusion has opened up doors to communities and work I could only ever dream of doing.

    I’ve been working consistently since 2013 towards becoming the friend - and now the adult - I wish I had as a child. Someone who makes others feel less alone, someone who holds theirself accountable to learn more about anti-oppression, anti-racism, anti-sexism, anti-capitalism… the list goes on.

    I am dedicated to continuing my growth to serve the communities I’m a part of: the 2SLGBTQIA+ community and PGM/BIPOC. I am additionally holding myself accountable to practicing allyship in support of the marginalized communities I’m not a part of and/or have a distant relationship with: the Indigenous community, the Black community, the Disabled community, those who experience fatphobia, and more.

  • Integrity 👍🏽

    in·teg·ri·ty (n.) 1. The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness.

    “Doing right comes first before being right.”

    In both my personal and professional life, integrity is a firm pillar. Doing the right thing because it’s the right thing - and not for compensation or recognition - is something I often feel inclined to do. This is how I navigate my business practices as well.

    When talking to prospective clients, I prioritize them finding a good fit over me working with them. Making sure that they find a good match honours their needs as well as what I can honestly and authentically offer them.

    In terms of equity, pricing may shift based on systemic privileges: a small business will not have the same budget as a big corporation; marginalized communities may not have the same opportunities as those with more power and privilege. This is all considered in my work, and working out of integrity with my values is prioritized.

  • Compassion 🖤

    com·pas·sion (n.) 1. The feeling that arises when you are confronted with another’s suffering and feel motivated to relieve that suffering.

    It was difficult to choose between empathy and compassion for this one, so here’s a breakdown (something that I learned more about too!):

    Empathy definition: empathy is our feeling of awareness toward other people's emotions and an attempt to understand how they feel.

    Compassion definition: compassion is an emotional response to empathy or sympathy and creates a desire to help.

    If you poke around or work in the Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion (EDI/DEI) space, you may know about equality vs. equity vs. justice. And no problem if you don’t - take a look at this infographic.

    I’d like to view myself as an empathic person, and in that, doing what I can in my own power to help others, while also considering my own boundaries, needs, and systemic privileges. If I can make pricing more accessible for a person of colour, a trans person, or a small business - I will!

Definitions: Any terms you are wondering about can be found below. Please click on them to expand. If you have any questions, please reach out to me!

Allyship Resources: The Indigenous Community

I am a settler of Turtle Island in the city of Tsí Tkaròn:to (colonially known as “Toronto”). I reside here, but it is not my land.

As my work aims to combat the oppressive and colonial systems we live in, my commitment to learning about and standing with the Indigenous community is vital. As a settler here on Turtle Island, I have benefitted from the colonial systems that have been built and I want to continue to unlearn and dismantle.

Thank you to the Two-Spirit and Indigequeer folk who have come before me. Who have paved the way for the rest of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. For the voices who have been and continue to be ignored, erased and spoken over. I hope to continue learning from you to do better in my own life.

Start here:

Continuing your allyship journey:

Indigenous-owned businesses to support: